The Life and Adventures of Bee Butler

Praise Him in Uncertainty.

In the first two devotionals we talked about praising God during painful circumstances and praising Him for second chances. Today, it’s all about uncertainty.

As you all know, I’m about to go to treatment for an eating disorder. For those of you who have little or no exposure to an ED or the healing process, I’ll break it down for you. First, you have to cut off the bad food behavior, which means when you step into treatment, the immediate concern is getting you to eat. That is HARD to do. When you have an addiction (and yes, an eating disorder is an addiction) your first step is to enter sobriety so that you don’t die, even when you feel like you might just die from giving up your addiction. However, while that is priority number one in recovery from an addiction, it is probably the easiest.

No really, I’m serious.

The thing you’re addicted to is an outward manifestation of something entirely different. Nobody picks up bottle of whiskey and starts chugging it daily just because it seems fun. No, they do it because something in them is broken. My eating disorder is a reflection of my desire to control my circumstances and numb pain from a childhood that did not go the way it should have. Most people have a catalyst moment – the death of a loved one, divorce, loss of a job, the end of relationship – that catapults them into the downward spiral. This means that even after you kick the habit, you’re still sick. If I began eating regularly right now, I would still be sick, because my underlying problem is not being addressed or treated, and that is where it gets really, really difficult.

Next in treatment, you spend a lot of time talking and “unpacking” your issues. You have to reopen old wounds and dig deep to find the root of your behavior, and then you have to acknowledge it and stare it in the face, toe to toe, and fight it instead of medicating it. Relapse generally occurs when a triggering situation comes up and those old hurts swoop back in. It’s a lot like cancer in that aspect: you have to cut it out, and then you have to do chemo and radiation to kill every last cell of it. It takes time and it takes courage to willingly do something like that…

but you have to.

In 2 Timothy 1:7, it says that God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but one of power, love, and self discipline. That means that even though it is hard, the Lord has ALREADY EQUIPPED YOU TO DO IT. He wouldn’t ask you to do something without preparing you. You may not realize during your “preparation” that you’re training for an obstacle you will later face, but it’s happening, and because of that fact, you need to answer the call when God places a battle before you.

Two great examples of this are David and Goliath and Abraham. Nobody thought David was capable of making a difference on the battle ground, but God had given him the ability to slay a giant by fighting off animals in the wild while looking after his sheep. I highly doubt David killed that lion (1 Samuel 17:34-35) and thought, “Cool! Now I’m trained to do battle with a giant!”

Abraham (then just Abram) had a much more difficult journey that resonates more with me, because it required him to give up control and follow God blindly out into the desert. God literally said, “Go forth from your country, And from your relatives And from your father’s house, To the land which I will show you;” (Genesis 12:1). No map, no compass, not even the name of the place he would eventually reach. God called him to do the most absurd thing on earth, and he did it.

It’s like that in therapy for addiction. They sit you down and say, alright, let’s talk about this problem, knowing full well that if it were that simple, you wouldn’t need their help. The hardest part of recovery is walking away from your old life into a scary desert place with only the promise of healing somewhere down the road.

God does not choose the qualified, He qualifies the chosen. He has made the way for you to come out from under whatever you are clinging to that holds you back, and He is patiently waiting for you to begin to let go so that He can catch you and put you where you need to be. In times like this, the only thing you can do is praise Him. Go gladly, as impossible as it seems, and rejoice that you have within you such a great power from such an awesome God.

What is holding you back? If you’ve been looking for a sign, this is it. It is time to take a leap of faith, singing as you fall, and become free. He’s waiting there to catch you. It will be hard, but YOU ARE CAPABLE, because He Himself has said so!

Praise Him in your uncertainty, and watch what He does for your life.

“Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise. Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.” Proverbs 19:20-21.

 

2 Timothy

Boldly going,
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Praise Him for Second Chances.

Today in part 2 of Rocktober, a Season Praise.

Yesterday we left off with a story that tore me apart to write. After two attempts at his life, my sweet, loving, hopeful brother was trapped behind a wall of Satan’s lies. My brother had become so sick of all the falsifying, hatred, corruption, and greed. He had just ended a relationship, and in minutes he’d gone from checking out of his own free will to being tossed into a cop car, handcuffed and laughing maniacally. He’d injured my father and his best friend as well, but showed no remorse. To hear my father tell it, our little Bubba wasn’t himself anymore… and it was llooking like he never really would.

Then the phone rang and my entire family freeze.This was the moment you never want. The moment you lay awake at night going over and over. The feeling riiiiight as you trip, but right before you hit the ground.

I am here to tell you today is the GOD OF SECOND CHANCES.

My brother was doing well mentally and physically, got out of a toxic relationship, made amends with those he hurt, told us he loved us, and was excited to let us know he’d been praying not only for help, but that his ex would come to know Christ.

Remember when Jonah blatantly disobeyed and went in the EXACT OPPOSITE DIRECTION from the place to where he’d been called. God being Himself chose to snatch this crazy man up in a hale and have him be SPIT OUT and onto the dry land of his calling. My brother made some choices that were questionable at best and prison-worthy at most, but instead of landing him in jail, God put him in a hospital, and all of our tears of praise from within the storm turned into a sea of smiles as the prodigal one came home.

[ Psalm 63 ] [ A psalm of David. When he was in the Desert of Judah. ] You, God, are my God, earnestly I seek you; I thirst for you, my whole being longs for you, in a dry and parched land where there is no water.
Psalm 63:1 NIV

Wherever you are today and whoever you encounter, remember that you might be their second chance. If someone had not interceded he would be dead. Just a smile, a hello, a text, or heck, PICKING UP A PHONE could be all it takes to bring them farther away from the edge. Everyone you encounter is fighting a battle; do good always.

Now how bout you? What second chance did you get that you didn’t deserve? What second chance are you praying for? As usual, you may message me and I will confidentially send the prayer out to another group member without using your name. I’ll be praying for each of you daily.

As for me? My brother and I had a falling out over a year ago and had he succeeded, I never would have spoken anything to be proud of to remember. Now my last words to him are, :I love you, Bubba. Be safe.”, and those are only the last words of the day, because he wants to live.

{To all of you who prayed for me and my family, THANK YOU for standing together and asking God to save a life of someone you’ve never met, but that someone would be desperately missed by someone like me. Prayer works, you guys are proof, and I am grateful.)

 

second chances future

 

Humbled and in awe,
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Praise Him in the Storm.

Today we’re focusing on something that I know a lot of us struggle with:  keeping hope alive during times of trouble.

As some of you know, my brother recently tried to take his own life. My world crumbled into pieces when he called and told my mother, stepfather, and me that he was done here and that he no longer believed in God. I knew then how sick he really was; my baby brother has always been a strong Christian and this was so strange and scary. We sat on pins and needles all week awaiting his psychiatric release, and the whole time we BEGGED God to spare his life. Then he got out.

He tried to commit suicide again, and injured my father and my brother’s own best friend when they attempted to stop him. He was locked up in a police car and put in treatment. Needless to say, we were desperate and angry. Why would the God who would leave the 99 forsake this one? Why was His answer no?

Last Sunday I went to church and poured my heart out in worship, praising God while trying and occasionally failing to hide my tears. I gave Him all the strength I had left, and I surrendered my brother and his life to God. I never believed I would pray this, but I said, out loud, “God, if you want to take my brother home today, You will still be my King. I will worship you in this storm and pour out my heart during the pain.

Still, we never got a call from my brother. However, I had an incredible sense of peace. My prayers became calm and firm in asking for God’s will to occur on this earth. I sat down at my piano and played “Praise You In This Storm” by Casting Crowns, and I cried. My voice cracked, but not because I was hurting… I was crying because I meant the words I sang. I was literally praising him in the midst of the most horrible storm I could imagine, and I knew He had a plan.

For the rest of this story, come back tomorrow.

I leave you today with this:

Matthew 7:24 “Therefore whoever hears these SAYINGS of Mine, and DOES them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the ROCK:”

God hears your tearful praise and promises to heal you.

Psalm 34:1:“I will bless the Lord at ALL TIMES; His praise shall CONTINUALLY be in my mouth”

God does not want simple , fair – weathered praise. . He asks that we pray out of the deep darkness in our hearts and allow Him to mend. Just like Esther, you may be going through a trial for a time such as this. He is still the same G9e who rescued Israel from slavery and death. Each trial they faced they met with offerings of praise, and they came out refined by the fire, like flawless gold.

Remember, God has plans for you that only He knows. They aren’t going to hurt you, but instead will bless you abundantly. You might even say He takes the surviving to thriving!

 

Praise in the storm

See you next time,
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A Season of Praise

This month my Christian Thrive community and I are doing a series called Rocktober: A Season of Praise. Each devotional is geared towards praising God in a certain situation, and so far everyone seems to like what I’ve written, so I’m going to start sharing them here as well.

If you’d like to follow along, be sure to add me to your RSS feed!

Season of Praise

Hope to see you there!
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Quick Turnarounds Are My THING.

God, in His spectacular fashion, answered my prayer with a, ‘Yes, you can stay, but you’re leaving for treatment now and there will be no more of this” via the mouth of the person in control of and making possible my living, eating, sleeping, driving, medical and treatment arrangements.

 

I am floored, because I truly did not expect that to happen, but it did.
I am grateful in a way that I have never been before, and my stomach hurts in kind of a ‘just-came-to-the-end-of-a-roller-coaster’ sense and I feel like I could either vomit or cry or an unseemly combination of both right now.

 

 

Time to start packing, start planning, and come up with some cash,
because I’m leaving ASAP for San Diego.

 

Knocked down by a feather but excitedly,

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